25 More on the Way to 50...

26.) Try to take occasional criticism without taking offense. If it's true, it might help you. If it's not, eff it.

27.) Don't mistake infatuation for love. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

28.) Being patient is not always a virtue.

29.) No one besides you can make you: happy, complete, fulfilled, secure, purposeful, unafraid, satisfied or settled.

30.) Two do not become one in marriage.

31.) Read. Especially things you disagree with. They make for good rants when you occasionally get good and drunk.

32.) Remember. And tell your stories to kids.

33.) Spout off when you must. But do it face to face. Email is for cowards.

34.) Be a hypocrite every now and then, especially about #33.

35.) Ask for help when you need it. Offer help before being asked.

36.) Don't compare yourself to others. Some days you're a Picaso. Some days you're a pick asso. Either way, there's no one like you.

37.) Don't ever allow yourself to be devalued in a relationship.

38.) Give. Because it reminds you the world is bigger than the inside of your head.

39.) Everything is a process. Sucks, but it is.

40.) Don't underestimate the power of influence. Even your own.

41.) Never, ever follow blindly. Think.

42.) Pay attention to small things. They pave the way to great things.

43.) When facing your unthinkable: Remember no matter how dark, hopeless, terrified, hurt or ashamed you are, one day, you truly will be ok again. Changed. But ok.

44.) When your parents die, let yourself grieve. Then continue their legacy.

45.) Shit disturb, just for the fun of it. Someone has to.

46.) Do things outside your comfort zone. Like math or public speaking. It's empowering.

47.) Learn to deal with your internal angst & dark side.

48.) Fake it til you make it, but don't get caught.

49.) If you get caught, make things right quickly.

50.) Love - you'll never be sorry.